I'm pleased and excited to feature Zari Banks on my blog. I've read her book, O Lord, Forgive Them: 30 Days of Praying for Your Enemies, and must say this has been the blessed boost I needed to learn to forgive. Zari has a gift to teach us how, and I'm here to say her words are spot-on correct. Zari is filled with the Holy Spirit in a most powerful way, and her honesty shines on every page of O Lord, Forgive Them. After reading O Lord, Forgive Them, I am learning to pray for others that have hurt me, and in doing so am becoming free.
Now let's get to the good part and into the mind and emotions of this wonderful author, Zari Banks.
Is “O Lord, Forgive Them” dear to
your heart, and if so why?
Yes, it’s very dear to my heart because as I
wrote these prayers in my journal, I was actually going through the process of
forgiving - first three and then as I went through the 30 days ended up with a
total 16 – people who’d hurt me and my 9-year-old greatly within the three
years. It’s a document of my commitment to change for the better.
Tell us a little about who you are.
How would you define yourself?
My favorite description to give of myself is as
follows:
“I read. I write. I eat. And, I play. :0)”
I also love kids and have a heart to serve
single parents and teach effective prayer.
What is your heart’s desire for
readers who read “O Lord, Forgive Them?” What do you pray they will learn?
My primary hope for readers is that they commit
to the process. Forgiveness is not an easy thing by any means, and it takes
stone-cold focus to release yourself from pain that is so deep because it’s
often caused by those from whom we expect to receive love. Secondly, I pray
that readers will come to the head AND heart realization that God means what He
says when gives a command. All commands. I used to like to pick and choose what
commands I wanted to obey without question, but that limits my victory in life;
it removes me from the availability of the abundant life offered in Christ.
And, lastly, I want them to be encouraged with walking in God’s will. He
promises throughout the Bible – in the both Old and New Testaments – that He
will repay and restore when we’re obedient.
Would you include
here the first chapter of “O Lord, Forgive Them?”
Day 1
So now Israel, what do you think God expects from you? Just this: Live in His presence in holy
reverence, follow the road he sets out for you, love him, serve God, your God, with everything you have in you, obey his commandments
and regulations of God that I’m
commanding you today–live a good life.
Deuteronomy 10:12-13
Lord, I thank you for this opportunity to be obedient to
your commands. I praise you because
you’re true to your word. I’m sorry for
the times I’ve doubted you and had to miss out on the blessings you’d planned
for me, and worse, required discipline.
I know you want what’s best for me, and because I’m choosing to obey I’m
clearing the way for the miraculous to happen in my life.
I thank you because you’re gracious and merciful. Please continue to show grace and mercy to
_____________ for as long as it takes them to learn to honor you. Lord, please forgive them. Don’t hold the wrongs they’ve committed
against me and my family against them.
Draw them to yourself, Father, and bless them to know you
intimately. I love you, Lord. In Jesus’ Name. Amen
Don’t ever say, “I’ll get you for that!”
Wait for God;
He’ll settle the score.
Proverbs 20:22
Day
18
Since we've compiled this long and sorry record as sinners
(both us and them) and proved that we are utterly incapable of living the
glorious lives God wills for us, God did it for us.
Romans 3:23
I’m humbled to be forgiven by you, Jesus. You’ve been there as I’ve committed every
sin of thought, word, or deed. You were
beaten to give God a sacrifice for me.
Thank you, Lord. The very least
I can do is forgive my enemies–neighbors, brothers, and sisters. I refuse to live my life allowing your
sacrifice to be in vain. I’m free
because of the ransom you paid and I will not be bound by unforgiveness. I love you, Lord.
Lord, what if _____________ don’t know that you gave up
everything–including glory and riches–to save them? Please give them knowledge of yourself. Use me through prayer and in person to spread the Gospel. May the Name of the Lord be praised. Glory to God! Amen
Then he spoke to her: "I forgive your sins."
Luke 7:48
You’ve mentioned
before that you waited on the Lord for answers. What encouragement could you
give others about how important it is to wait on the Lord?
Waiting on the Lord is
crucially important for believers. You don’t go wrong with God, point blank.
But, we also have to know that the Hebrew and Greek translations are telling us
that wait means ‘to rely on, seek and trust Him.’ Waiting never means doing
nothing. It means first and foremost seeking godly wisdom through mentors,
Bible reading and meditation, prayer, listening, studying and preparing ourselves
mentally, spiritually and physically for that thing we’re waiting for God to
deliver.
What keeps you the most humble as a
writer?
Knowing that others are reading my work. It’s an
honor for someone else to even acknowledge something I wrote much less take the
time read it. And, I become so flustered when people buy my books I often can’t
even thank them properly because I get a lump in my throat trying to hold back
tears.
Is your writing journey as you
envisioned it? If not, how is it different?
Absolutely not. I’ve always wanted be to a
fiction writer, but that hasn’t been my journey thus far. I’ve journaled my
prayers for years, and published my first devotional after sharing the prayers
with other single parents who were in custody battles at the same time I was. I
have three children’s books that are written but need illustrations that I’d
love to publish and about seven or so fiction starts, but I don’t know that
I’ve been released to complete those, yet.
What does "networking" as an
author mean to you?
To me networking means making contact and
hopefully making a connection. It’s important to make contact, but I don’t want
to over contact (in numbers) to the point that the connection doesn’t have
proper relationship attached to it. I definitely don’t expect to be everything
to everyone, but I want the connections to be valuable to all parties.
How do you rest, but are still
creative?
I rest by spending
time with people I care about, and those people are hilarious and wonderful and
great inspiration for creativity.
What have you learned recently about
yourself, and how has it affected your writing?
Recently I’ve gained amazing personal
confidence, and it stems from the increased intimacy I’ve received with Christ
through my writing and praying for and with others. I understand now that the
awkwardness I’ve always believed to be my most unique quality is actually
common, and connects me with others. This new confidence has allowed me to
share more of my life with others, and I’ve been received most graciously.
What gives you the most satisfaction in your writing—besides
"The End," that is?
Having someone say anything along the lines of,
“That really spoke to me.”
If you
weren't a writer, what would you most likely be doing instead?
I’m many things already. I have a Master’s
degree in Education and spent 8 years in public ed. so I operate tutoring
business. Also, my family owns two other businesses – an insurance agency and a
bakery – so I serve as the general and marketing manager for both businesses.
And, I’m a freelance editor. I help other authors get their work ready for
publishing as well as edit copy for blogs.
What sparks your creativity when
feeling drained?
I’m a high-energy woman, so usually when I’m
‘drained’ I just need sleep and there’s nothing else that will help me. But,
restful sleep sparks creativity.
Do you write in one place, or switch
off to different locations? Describe your favorite writing area.
I write anywhere I can take a journal or laptop.
Literally. Each of the devotionals I’ve written, were written in different
states. Arizona, Nevada and Washington.
What types of books do you like to
read?
I like to read all sorts of things. A smattering
of both fiction and non, and grown up and young adult fiction. I taught first
grade for years, so I like children’s books, too. I’m reading three or four
books right now and you can check them out on my GoodReads profile.
Tell us a few things about yourself
some folks may not know.
I can’t dance. I have no rhythm whatsoever.
However, in my mind, I can cut a mean rug.
When you look back on your childhood,
were there signs you would be a writer one day?
Oh, gosh, I wrote poems, stories, and phrases
throughout my childhood and I remember taping them around the house. I remember
when I was about 7 I wrote “Love is what life is all about,” on a sheet of
story paper (you know the elementary paper that’s blank on top for art, and has
lines for penmanship practice on the bottom) and drawing a horrible picture of
me standing under an arched rainbow with clouds on the side, and taping it to
my mom’s dressing room door. I began writing my first fiction book start in
high school. On a 1993 laptop.
Who was the greatest influence for you
as a writer?
Interesting question. I suppose Shakespeare because
he’s my favorite writer. He was a phenomenal wordsmith. But, I don’t have any
skill at manipulating language the way he did. And, I really don’t like to read
the King James Version of the Bible. Go figure. But, reading his sonnets and
plays is like reading the Psalms – full of life.
How did your writing career begin?
Well,
I actually have a Bachelor of Arts in Journalism and my first paying job in
media was as a sportswriter at the Tri-City Herald in Tri-Cities, Wash. Then, I
moved to Arizona, went to graduate school and did some PR-type
freelancing. Spent several years in
public education and then was laid off and returned to writing as a freelancer
in 2010.
What other writing have you done?
I’ve
published five books, I write for four blogs, am a freelance writer and editor.
My hub has a portfolio tab and a press release tab that has links to quite a
bit of the writing I’ve done in the last two years.
Where can readers
get your book?
My Hub: http://zwriteswords.weebly.com
Where can readers
find you online?
My Hub: http://zwriteswords.weebly.com
Goodreads: http://www.goodreads.com/mizbanks
My Dating & Relationship
Blog: http://asesensiblenonsensez.blogspot.com
My Education and Reading
Blog: http://smartypantsteacher.blogspot.com
My Personal Blog: http://trcupanddown.tumblr.com
My Family’s Bakery: http://www.facebook.com/CupcakesDeli
Zari, I've enjoyed our interview, and I'm sure anyone reading your books will enjoy a closer relationship with our Lord.
God bless you, Soldier of Christ!
